Since the day I got married to him, I made up my mind never ...

Since the day I got married to him, I made up my mind never to leave him for any reason; whether good or bad but my husband abuse me in every way he can.He finds happiness in seeing me down.For example he:
* gives me the silent treatment for days
* humiliates me privately
* ignores my feelings
* criticize me, call me names, yell at me
* give me a hard time about socializing with my friends or family
* ridicule my beliefs
* have unpredictable mood swings, from good to bad for no apparent reason
* twist my words to turn them against me
* tell me that I am too sensitive
* ridicule me and then tell me it's a joke and say that I have no sense of humor
* withhold approval, appreciation, or affection
* present a wonderful face to the world
* promise never to do something hurtful again
* compliment me to keep me happy but criticize me to keep me insecure
* make me feel like there is no way to win his heart
* say things and later deny saying them etc etc
Infact he treats me like a queen when we are out and everyone envies me for having such a loving husband but at home im shit. I need advice on how to deal with this issue or possibly bring him to order.I can never divorce but I want to live a happy life. Thanks for ur love as u give ur opinion on how I can deal with him.I want to make a home, a real home.

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