I am a 31 year old married woman wit a son less than a year,my marriage is almost 2 years. I noticed my husband don’t really like making love from d 1st week of our marriage,he responded to my complaints by saying he’s fratigued from d wedding stress…..but it has lingered until now, we barely have s#x 2 times in a month,anytime I complain he will laugh and say it’s because am a self employed woman and I have a lot of time to think about sx,so am so tired of complaining and feeling like a slut…but I feel so deprived,am a Christian,I can’t ,cheat on him,sometimes I self-service just to get satisfied,but I always feel guilty and dirty afterwards, this is not a topic I can easily walk to anyone to discuss,am really frustrated,pls I need as many advice and ideas I can get……..

pls in God’s name,no insults….I just need candid advise….thanks.