greetings to 9ja pals. i don't really know what has gon...

greetings to 9ja pals. i don't really know what has gone wrong with me and i don't know how to go about this! i have a girlfriend whom i love so much before i traveled overseas. i can do anything for her to be my wife before i left. before my visit to 9ja last month, i was having marriage intentions for her but when i got to 9ja she was no longer attractive as before and my emotions for her has reduce from 90% to 40% and she noticed it. during my visit i met a younger girl that will suit my taste... but the problem is my girlfriend has faithfully waited for 4 years and i don't know how to tell her off because she has done no wrong but i don't have feeling for her anymore! i know that what am doing is wrong but am considering my emotions and i don't want to be cheating after marriage. if u are 28 and above, please i need a matured advise on how to handle this situation.

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