Hello friends,i have this issue that has been bothering me,am a young lady of 25yrs,i have this BFF that is of same age with me,we have been friends since childhood,infact due to our friendship the both families became some sort of family friends,growing up,i always secretly admired her family because of the kind of love that exist between her parent,she has always sang it 2 me over nd over how she trust her parent nd we both usual pray that gives us a husband like her father,well,just recently,her dad started making passes at me,mind u this is a man i have so much respect for nd have come 2 see him as a father,at first i thought it was a joke,but he continued,he would follow me when i get to their house,nd would secretly touch my behind or touch my breast when know one is looking,i warned him severally that if he doesnt stop it,that i will report him 2 his wife or my friend,he would apology nd promise not 2 do such again but after sometimes he will start again,i got fed up nd told my mum about it,she warned me 2 stay away from their house,so i stayed away,then one day,my friend had a interview,she forgot some document at home,she called me nd begged me to go 2 her house to help her get the document,i asked her who was at their house nd she said her dad was home,now not just home friends oo,but home alone,so i told her i was busy that i couldnt go there,i tried 2 send some one to the house 2 bring the document but it didnt work,2 cut the long story short,my friend never forgave me because she lost the job,i have sent her many text messages 2 forgive me,but she has just refused 2 respond or pick my calls,but had i gone nd her dad raped me,everyone including my mum would have blamed,because my mum forbid me going there,now friends i dont know if i should open 2 my friend nd explain the reason for my actions nd destroy the love that exist in her family,nd the admiration nd trust she has on her father,nd on the other hand what if they dont believe me nd tag me the bad person,am saying this because i miss my friend nd i just want things to go back to the way it use to be between us,am confused,plz friends was the way forward for me,matured minds plz