so confused oh. i travelled to visit my child, she just did her birthday. i'm a single mom and seriously dating someone else. The father of my child is also very involved in my child life, we both planned her birthday when i was over there. Meanwhile i tell my guy everything that goes on in my life even the fact the father of my child wants us to get back together and work things out. We were together for 4 yrs before i took in and were planning marriage but things didnt work out, he was also my first guy and first love. I called the guy in lagos and told him everything that was going on, i really didnt want to mess up cos when i go around the father of my child, the passion and love is always there. I was so determined to keep all these feelings at bay not to mess up and hurt the guy in lagos cos we've been together a year now. On my daughter's birthday, her father bought her a dog just like the one my guy in lagos has. Pls note, they have never met or do they know anything personal abt themselves. As shocked as i was, i called him and said. hey, guess what ? my baby girl got a dog just like yours for her birthday then he laughed. he called some minutes later to tell me something, i didnt hear and i kept calling back till he picked and i asked what he said and he was like "abeg i shouldnt make him say what he will regret (what did i do?) "later u will come back to lag and pretend, abegggg, i was trying to talk and he cut the line on me as usual. i sent him a text, why is he angry. i'm the mother of the child and the father is there, we are just celebrating her birthday for her. Then this guy sent me a text "do whatever u want to do, im out. dont tink i can go tru dis". Pls my naijapals, if i should give the father of my child a chance for us to work out and settle down, am i wrong cos he clearly broke up with me for nothing and i called him for three days even sent a text to clarify myself and he didnt pick my calls or reply my text.