Good morning 9Ja Pals. i don't have a job but my girlfriend has a good job and also a has a business outside her Job. she told me that she will be assisting me financially every month when she receive her salary (pay me little stipend) to be supporting myself before i will get a job. but am no the type that want to be getting financial assistance from a lady which makes me to reject the offer because i might lose my respect. she needed someone to be managing her business which i told her i can manage the business because its better to be working for the money than to be receiving it free from her. things have been going smoothly but she started pressurizing me to marry her and i told her that i need to be financially grounded before getting married. now she sometimes disrespect me and now have a code to her 2 cell phones. although we still have usual sex activities. please is it a bad idea to be working for your girlfriend? advice is needed from the matured mind.