I need a help. Am 38yrs old,I wasted 12yrs of my life in a r...
I need a help. Am 38yrs old,I wasted 12yrs of my life in a relationship that leads to no where. Since 4yrs ago that the relationship crashed,I have never met any guy not until 4mnth ago. I love dis guy becos he possess all I think I need in a man. My main problem is dat,this guy in question is a muslim,am a xitian. He is married n he want to marry me as a second wife. I don't wish to be a second wife. But my fear now is dat am 38yrs. If I should let him go,will I ever get anybody dat will love me d way he does? I have known his people n I have being to his village. Am confussed. I need serious help.

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