D way some of u palz respond to question is not encouraging at all. Those of u dat fills ur too matured nd knows how to handle all ur problms y not leave those dat not matured nd seekin for advice alone with their problems since ur too matured to help nd let those are willing to help bring suggestions do so, instead of calling people kids wen u can't even bring any sugestion. I'm d one dat wrote on a gal denying havin a guy. My question was ''is it right for me to call ha or just let ha be? Tanx to all those contributin, I appreciate. Am still learning dats y am askin, pls my good people go on and advice me on wat to do. Tanx