Its four months to my wedding but I and my husband quarrel almost every day. I have been married to this man for a year already.Yeah, traditionally and civil and now its time for the white wedding but things seem to be going bad and bad by the day.The frequency of the misunderstanding increases as days go by over very little things.At times we stay unhappy for even a week because of a minor problem all these because my husband has a "wicked" heart. I refer to him as wicked because he builds anger in him for days;like if i wrong him and realize myself and apologize, no matter how much I apologize it falls on deaf ears and he treats me throughout that period like rubbish and care so little that i wonder if he has a heart at all.Even when he does something wrong and I try to like say thats not correct, no matter the tone I use to tell him a fight automatically comes up. His heart is not that of someone who can love somebody, if you stab him once he makes sure he stabs u at least 10times.He does not get over anything easily without hurting back. Now i dont feel comfortable because no matter the concern he shows me when we are happy I can't stop thinking of that moment when there will be a misunderstanding and he will behave as if he wish me death.Help me, this is a man Im already married to and living with but I need strategy to help him calm down his anger.To take out the wickedness in him.No two people can live under the same roof without misunderstanding and when such happens we only need to seek a solution not prolong it for weeks.How can i make my husband to change before our upcoming wedding so we can have a healthy and happy home to begin our family. Could someone please just tell me a strategy.I have constant headache due to many thoughts on my mind.Thanks for ur concern as u advice me