Good day all and i trust you all are okay, please i need your consent on a very disturbing matter. I left the shores of Nigeria about 6 years ago to be precise and now that am almost done with my studies, am about returning home. Here is the catch, i have been in a relationship for a while with this girl whom used to be just a friend when i left Nigeria, i asked her out over the phone and candidly a times i wonder if i am with the right girl. Of course am yet to have any physical contact with her because we really haven't spent anytime together since we started dating except for phone conversations which sometimes gets annoying by the way she responds and all that. But my folks are bent on me asking some other lady out who they deem good and okay for me, according to them she is even a churchy religious fella and yeah i like the sound of that. Due to constant press from my folks, i went ahead trying to talk to her once but she declined to my plea. Nonetheless people who know her and know me keep telling me that she is only trying not to play cheap so am still not sure if i should go ahead and ask her out or not cos of a truth i plan coming home real soon to settle and am not really up for some relationship dramas.