I just have to talk about this. I don't know what to do anymore. I dated a girl for 3years plus. I felt the spark wasn't there anymore so i called off the relationship. We had not spoken in almost 2 months when all of a sudden her elder brother called me up 1 day & started verbally abusing me. Telling me i am a disgrace to the male gender. That i impregnated his sister & the only manly thing i could think of was to dump her. I was shocked. So i called my ex & asked her about the pregnancy. At first she denied it. When i told her about her brother's call, she then calmed down & accepted it. She said her brother was never supposed to tell me that she told him in confidence about the pregnancy. I asked why she dint tell me. She said she dint think it was necessary since we had already broken up & besides, she is capable of raising the child on her own. That statement annoyed me, so i told her that if i am the father, i have every right to be part of my child's life. she said i should have thought of that before i broke up with her & then she hung up. I tried calling her so many times & she dint pick. Now her number doesn't go through again. For almost 3 months after that, i could not reach her. I even went to her house, her gateman refused to let me in & the security men in her office refused to let me see her too. I just recently found out from her close friend that she has gone to Ireland to give birth. Her elder sister stays there. Was able to get her sister's number & i called. Her sister was surprisingly nice to me. Told me she understands my position & she will talk to her for me. If that child is mine (of which she says it is & i have no doubt about it), don't i have the right to be part of my child's life? My friend told me to take her to court. I think it's a bit extreme. Please what do you guys think i should do? Should i just let go?