Hello pals, please no insult, I really want you guys to help me on what decision I should follow. I have being dating a girl for five years now and the girl is now 26 years old. I really love her and I have never cheated on her and she too was very faithful to me. But ending of last year my business was totally down and this girl was there for me intense of feeding aspect. One day I told her I will travel to another country to search for job and we both agreed, then I was trying to put some certain things in order before I will live but this girl keep asking me every time if am not travelling again and I always reply yes but why did you ask, do you have anything in mind and her answer is always no. So one day i decided to fixed the day I will travel which was two days ahead, there i said to baby you know we have gone a long way please remain the good girl you are for your benefit and my mine too. I also said by this time next year by God grace we will get married then she look at me and smile. So I really travelled and we always talk on phone every time but to cut my story short I was having some little problem over there due to language barrier so I decided to come back after two months but I was so surprise to see this is now dating another guy she claimed to be her ex guy. In the first case she tried to deny but she later narrate the whole thing to me, then my eyes open it was as if the whole world has come to an end. This was really difficult for me to tell my friends because when I came the first thing I ask one of my close friend was about her and my friend said this girl is so nice. What surprise me most is that the guy knows me very well and in several occasion I have bought drink for this guy. And is now this girl is bringing every excuses and error after five years of relationship. Although she ask me for forgiveness but I said to her it is finished but since then I can't stay and am so worried, I love her so much and we supposed to married this year. Please help me I don't think I can love any girl.