Hi pls I need help. I am with my bf he has proposed n all me...

Hi pls I need help. I am with my bf he has proposed n all met his mum.
Told him no sex b4 marriage n he is cool with that.
Few occasions we hv been carried away romancing each other.i noticed he was very rough.he will fondle me with lots of pressure. I correct him n tell him to be gentle he agrees then gets rough again n it hurts .I stop enjoying the foreplay.then he eventually comes after like an hour of our lil game.
My fears now is he is not a gentle lover how can I break up with him just based on that fact? He is sweet n caring n always does my wishes.
2. He stays so long during foreplay b4 he cums I am wondering if he is the type that rams a lady for more than 5-10 minutes cos I can't stand long s.x.
I want to hv sex with him so I know all these tinz cos I don't really believe the no sex stuff but it ruined my first rekationship thr was no trust despite d fact that he knew I was faithful.dont want to loose my boo cos if I hv sex with him it might result to the trust issue all over again so I wanyt us to work.
If my fears are confirmed aft marriagedont kknow if ican cope.
Please I need your advice.

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