help me pals i want an ugent advice b4 i left Nigeria to abroad 4 years ago i have a girl friend which we promised to marry each other. we have been communicating having some quarrels and settling it on ourselves. i have been a caring person she don't care much about me anymore because money is no longer coming the way she expected from me because i cared for her needs when i was back home and since 4 years i have managed to send her money couple of times which she did not even appreciate.she keeps on pastering my life telling how she want to get married to someone abroad which i ask some reliable source all was just a mere fabrication to put me to fear since she knows i love her.i want to quit this relationship of 8 years now but the problem now is she don't even call me if i ask her she will said she doesn't have credit that means if i don't send her money she will not call me.am fed up i want happiness some one who will love me uncondictional even when i tell her am no more interested she will come up and start raising causes on me that she has been waiting for me and now i want to leave her because i have made some money.to cut the long story short i met a girl here who gave me experience i never had before she is very good in bed i most confess since my life i never had such kind of sex before even am in my 30 am not that experience because of my past life i am not a womanising type.now i want to marry this one i met here or should i wait till i go back to nigeria so i can know what is the problem with my first love. am confused i don't want to end up in a bad way two of then are very good and i think my former girl is the best she is royal and respectful and intilligent, wise,.what can i do please help a wounded soul.