Good morning 9ja pals, please this confession is for 29 yrs ...

Good morning 9ja pals, please this confession is for 29 yrs and above... i live in SA. and i dated a girl that i dis-flowered 4 one yr b4 traveling out of the country, i never proposed to her but we were deeply in LOVE and believing something Good to come out of it. I hate polygamy! however, i dated a girl here in SA without promising her marriage because she have actually ask when am going to marry. we always use condom but she told me that we should be having it raw that she can take care of her self and i assume she found out that there is someone some where that my heart belongs... she knew i hate polygamy!!! i never knew she was deceiving me so as to get pregnant and tie me down to marry her! i believed her and now she is pregnant and said i must marry her that she is not going 4 D&C. i remind her of what she said about taking care of herself but she said that was the past. pals i hate polygamy with a passion but i love my girl in Nigeria more than this one in SA. she is rendering herself worthless to me by trying to force herself on me with a child. how can i cope with someone i never intend to marry? how can i be happy with her child? am confused, pls elderly bros and elderly sist in the house i need your opinion in this kind of situation. i know that i 4k up 4 believing her words.

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