My girl friend of about two years told me last week that the person he thought was her dad turns out to be her grand dad. That they just told her last week that her real dad got her mum pregnant and wanted to marry her but her grand dad refused the man to marry her mum then, I asked her why she said she don't know why. And her mum have been living with her grand dad since then, that her mum got married in 2005 but the man she got married to travelled abroad but was in prison then her mum now moved back to her grand dad home( that's the man she thought was her real dad) and the this while we have been together she never tell me her mum got married with another man, she will always tell me that her mum and dad are living happily( that's her grand dad she thought was her real father) my question now is.. (1) Why did her grand dad refused a man that wanted to marry his daughter after getting her pregnant? (2) maybe the girl knows everything before but didn't want to tell me, claiming that last week was the first time for her to hear that,( 3) or her mum don't want to marry the man then. (4) maybe the man is what the igbos called OSU. Cuz of that her grand dad refused him from marrying his daughter. Please help me out guys. The girl will be 24yrs and. She claim one man always call and visit her in school telling her that he is sorry for everything and when she ask him what was that the man will tell her she will soon know when it's time.