pals advice pls...i met dis guy late last yr,,,oct true my cuzn..he proposed after a week,,i told him to hold on let me knw more about him,,but he was in haste to do everytn thou we re from d same state..i later lost my mum dec period..wen i cam bak d house was so empty nd lonely,,bc my bros dem ve gone bak to sch,,,am d only one in d huz,,i decided to stay a week in his place to eas off d pain...bc he live with his younger sis..my dear pals wat i saw durin dat a week was hell fire,,b4 i wakeup in d mornin he has gone out,,nd everytn abt him was d sis..even wen i wanted to assist d sis in cookn she refuse nd after cookn she will empty everytn nd take it to d shop,,,,i wnt see dem till late in d nite again...he was d one dat ask me to cum..aafter some time i changed my mind,,now he is treatnin my life...my spirit ve neva accept him 4 one day..was forcing my self..he is very rude..talk to d guy livin wit dem as if he is no body...bad mouth nd bad xracter..even call me mumy is stead of sweet name..jst sent me msg yest dat he is givin me from dat yest to 9am today to reply his message or we both hurt each other?shud i reply d msg or shud i bone him?thou i really wanna setle down bc am 28 ...but my dear i dnt see d luv in him