naija is a place where people in d world can come to learn many things in life.u can learn socially, academically, business wise,spiritually e.t.c.let me emphasize on d social aspect cos its a social site.I havent c any Nigerian girl dat haven\'t define her feelings wit her boy friends financial status.love have to b unconditionally and there must b natural likeness. many never know d value of love or what to take to love someone.ever since have been dating,I only love one person and her name is odunbaku aminat Olawunmi.she left me for another man but I never hate her for what she did.its been a while she told me that she need money to determine who she will end up wit.she date a guy in which I discovered along time ago,for like two years ago until she now finally move on wit him.aminat is a nice girl and she has also b so good to me.sometimes wen a man is facing spiritual battle,good things will passby and your effort will b meaningless. I spent six years doing four years course in school and she is getting hold everyday.she have been dating this guy for like two years secretly, til she finally bounce out of me.its very hard to overlook someone u love seeing her wit another man.what can I do but to let her do her mind.even wen she left me,I still pray for her cos her happiness is my joy.I hv never c someone dat will drive me so crazy in love.even if she need my help despite we are not together,I will always help her. I don\'t think I can have any lover again but can have kids wit any woman If am ready to give birth.tears flow wen I think about her cos God favour her d love I have for her.d other guy is wealthy and also from a good family back ground.he has d edge but God knows d best.have find my streanght in my weakness of love.I dont call her again cos to admit her own decition but I will always love her no mater d position i am in future.she is always welcome to my life anytime and day.lovers generally b vigillant,so DAT u will quickly discover if ur lover want to abandon u for another man.quickly gather ur streanght from your weakness. and never loss hope cos d best woman will come ur way.