Pals I grit una o! rit nw. I make great mistake as a pesin bt I wunt die in it. Only God knw y. I met dis guy who knew me wit d 1st guy I marid n had bby for ova ten yrs nw. Our 1st contact ws mainly biz connectn. But he leta got 2 knw I parted wit dat man. I tod him wat happened n d leta devt. Frm at day he started disturbin me n tod me tins abt himsef n fmr afairs dat failed also. He dint tel me he had a girl dat had a bby 4 him. My bro who woks clos 2 his shop tod me n I asked, he denied bt leta agrid n tod me she ran away wit d bby coz her pple wnts her 2 mary her tribe (Ibo). Many tins abt her he tod me dat showed they are nt 2geda agn. He leta tuk me 2 his parents dat he wnts us 2 mary. I became aquainted wit d parents n they like me. D mum also tod me same abt d Ibo girl n hw she left. He planned wit d parents 4 our mariage n d month it shud be so he ws asked 2 visit my home, which he did. At dis stage, our both parents were nw in d pic of our intention. D month he visited my home I mixd my period n we talkd abt it. His parents became aware n adviced we liv it. So d parents came wit him 4 intro. My tradi doesn't alow diawry wen a wman is preg. As we are nw livin 2geda, I noticed he calls dis his ex evryday so I asked n he sed is bcos of his baby. One midnight he came frm club, tuk a shower n went outside. Only 4 me 2 mit him begin d girl 2 com bak coz he hasn't replace. Sins den, he was no longer d man I knw. I tried 2 knw y n he sed he dint tel me he left d girl dat he can hv as many wives as he wishes. Nw I knw he doesn't lov me n am nt cmftabo. I wnt 2 liv his house cos I dint plan 2 b in polygamous home. I dnt knw if am wrong in my decision, plz.