happy weekend 9ja pals. am a guy @ 32 and i left 9ja for Canada (4yrs ago) in search of greener pastures. i left my girf friend whom we have dated for 1-year in 9ja. i have faced a lots of challenges regarding resident to stay in Canada because i don't want to break my girl-f's heart. we communicate and i still assist her financially despite d challenges. 2-3 girls have come my way for settlement which will help me legal status in Canada but i ignore them. now i have discovered overtime that the girl am doing this for is a corny and ingrate! she will tell me she have problem and i will b highly tension whereas its just taking advantage. i have talk to her to stop this attitude of her's but the same happend on monday this week when she wanted to collect 200 k from me that her sister that came back from abroad need the money BTA to go back. it was there i knew something was fishing, how can u tell me that someone u said she came for a visit need BTA? i refused to give her the money, just about 3days ago i saw on her wall post that the sister is now in Scotland. her sister lives in italy b4, she didn't open up to me that her sister was deported that they needed the money for a visa to Scotland! now she wrote on her wall that those who think she can't live without them should know they can live and survive without him. i read this and i am discourage about the relationship and am thinking of letting go of our relationship because she is too corny and secretive! pls your advice is needed. thanks in advance.