Life is a market place and a race which involves different people from different races and ethnicities with different attitudes wants and needs. It surely depends on the role an individual is willing to take during this journey. The family which people comes form also determines the role they would play and this is also opposite for example, a girl that comes from a respectable family doesn’t determine that she wouldn’t be a whore in the future. If you still don’t get it try looking at your life cycle, what you have achieved and what aspirations or situations you think you might or would like to be in the future.