· If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
· If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
· Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
· Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
· Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
· Slower is better.
· Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
· Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
· The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
· Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
· Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
· Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
· If something bothers you, speak up.
· Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you