i am in a relationship and we love each other very much. But before engaging in a relationship i am the one who quit my first relationship bc i found out my guy cheated on me and had a child. He has one before our relationship and one along our relationship, we used to love each other so much. but now i feel i have no future with the father of two from two girls. i told him since i discovered he has kids i have never loved him again so we better quit. now i am seeing some one else and we love each other. but my ex keeps calling me telling me i am frustrating his life that he doesn't know if that is the way God planned it. i used to love this guy very much but the fact he already have kids scare me away from him. pals if u were the one in my shoe what will u do? pls help me out.