Hello dear pals,
Pls I need some vital advice before I take the wrong decision, because right now I am as the peak point of life, I am 21 year and I never dated a guy before because I never have time for boys, when I finish up in school last year my mum told me to come down to Nigeria but I couldn’t come due to my new job in UK , but to my greatest surprise when I return home this year for summer holiday my mum told me I will be getting marry to her late best friend son, I was baffle about her statement because I knew nothing about the guy, I only met him once which is 2 year ago, I try to explain to my mum that I can’t marry someone I never knew talk less of love, But she told me that the guy love me and there wouldn’t be any problem concerning our marriage and by time I will also love him, but I am scared of getting marry to unknown person due to all different kind of breaking new concerning married of nowadays but right now I am in unswerving point , when i told my friends about the issue they said I should follow my heart, but it seem that my mum is forcing me into married and the issue is splitting our home gradually, 70% of my family are in supportive of me getting marry to the guy. Please It is right to marry someone u have not dated, for at least 6 month, because the whole issue is getting frustrated and the annoying part of my life is that my mum seize my passport and want me to marry the guy in 2 month time.