How to Tell a Guy You Love Him


If you love a guy just tell him the truth and if he dont belive tell him you will do any thing in the world for him that how much you love him, be open with your feelings, and tell him. But this how most of the time life goes..."Boys always want the best girls but they are the best apples on the tree and the best apples are always on the top. Most guys don't bother reaching up for the "best apples" so they pick the rotten ones at the bottom. So, don't ever doubt in your mind that your not an amazing apple, just because one guy dosent think you are." However, guys normally don't decline you unless they really don't like you, so here is some advice. Most guys appreciate honesty, and some guys also love it when girls say that they love him before he has to say he loves her. Also, if a guy wants a night out with "just the guys," let him. Don't think he dosen't love you or doesn't care about you. But if you can tell he's not the right guy, then don't wait a second later, tell him it's over! Things only get more complicated if you wait. Good luck through the journe



Steps

Send him love notes: Tell him how important he is to you. This might involve subtle hints, compliments, or mentions of how glad you are that he's involved in your life, i.e. "Talking to you is always fun/I love it when we can just hang out and talk." well if you like him go up to him and ask him to meet you somewhere and tell him how you feel.
Give him homemade cookies, or something else that you made yourself. It'll show that you're thoughtful enough to go out of your way for him.
Hug him and provide support when he needs it. If he doesn't want to speak about the issue, don't push it -- Just let him know that you care, and that if he's willing to talk you're willing to listen.
Find a private place for you to talk with him. Propose the idea beforehand and see his reaction.
Tell him that you love him.
You can tell him that he means a lot to you. It takes a lot to say "I love you" and that's a step closer and it can be shared in a good friendship.
He wants you to talk to him when he needs you.
Ask him how he feels about you.
Never show off! It just makes you look arrogant.
Be nice to him. Don't be nasty or rude to him. If you say something that offends him, never use the excuse "I was only joking"; apologize, and don't do it again. Don't insult his family, his friends, his beliefs, or anyone/anything else that he cares about.

Tips

Be sure that you actually do love the guy before you tell him. Never say it unless you are absolutely sure.
You'll really know if you love him if you care about how his day is going, even when he's really frustrated about something and you're there for him. There are different ways to tell or show a guy you love him without it seeming superficial. Let him know that he can be himself around you and you won't become freaked out if he's grumpy (it's not you...). A guy who cares will try to earn your respect and trust; he wouldn't expect you to say "I love you" right away but after getting to know him better.
Never beg for his love. Love isn't like lending a pencil!
Remember to be honest with him!
Make sure you're in love, not lust!

Warnings

If the guy does not share your feelings, it is not the end of the world. Saying "I love you" is a very serious thing for most men because it implies commitment. Just wait it out, without putting too much pressure on him, and hopefully he will honestly say the same back to you.
Do not tell him after you make love. Often times the endorphins from the act of love will make you feel like you are in love when you are not, in fact.

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