Dear pals, outta ma cnfused state do i write blvin u guys would profer solutns 2 ma case. I dont kp a dedicatd relatnshp wit men again upon til nw due 2ma stnd agnst sex afta my first& last relatinshp involvin sex years gone by, & it seems dt all dt crawls 2 ma corridor ar afta testin d stuf am made of; sayin am irrestibl & agn, i can detect dia mood very wel. Notwitstandin, i av strings attachd 4 2 amng dem, one is much more older dan m, nt my tribe& my family dnt want him bt he's emotional 2 a fault; a miser 2, evn wit his gud job, while d oda guy is 4rm my tribe& state 2, an only son bt is yet 2 stand as a man, a cassanova though he wont accept it; addin 2 d fact dt he's damn handsome,& he hails sex! sex!! Bt d tin is, none of dem is blinkin green light as expectd as rgards 2 real commitment. However, d irony is dt, i av a guy i met 2ru ma sis though we dnt av a defined relatnshp, we ar jxt close frnds. I visitd him on 2 occasions wen he visitd Nija & he dmanded 4 sex,bt i refuzd him which he wz embitterd by gr8ly, he evn stopd calin me up2 a year & nw he's come opened showin luv, care, givin me cnstant calls, footin my bills,& proposin 2 me nw. Am cnfused. Hw do i trace d true one amng dem? If i shud go 4 d later, won't he say am afta his wealth? Help pls bcos he's divertin my attentn, emotions& lv 2 him day-in-day-out! Thanx.