pls i need your help.......i was dating a girl and she is now 25yr i can only say i use only a yr to senior her but that it is not the problem .last yr December she is telling me that in the next 3yrs she most to get married.but am a footballer i don't know what will eventually happen by then.......and she said she did not think the relationship can work again ,i was so annoyed but there is nothing i could do.so i stop calling her after some month i just remember her and i call her she need to be telling me that she really miss me that she want to see me ,after seen each other on that very day we have sex together since then the relationship start again.but now not until i call her she will not call even text message .i now got a new grl she is in owerri the grl came to visit me in ibadan here ,but i don't want to cheat on my formal girl.what can i do.