Hey guys, <br /> I'm in real dilemma and I want your ab...

Hey guys,
I'm in real dilemma and I want your able minds to help me out of it. when I was about to leave the country, the girl I so so so love for a long time (we have been going out as friends,dating), finally accepted to be my girl friend. This is three years i left Naija for Canada and we communicate often or rather at the slightest opportunity. I LOVE THIS GIRL SO MUCH!. my two sister, lil bro, mum do same and have accepted her as a family too.
The problem started last year, I met this girl in my university. Though a nigerian from a different culture. I think i like her..(hmnn), she is a "good girl" too. Qualities that got me crazy over the first one, she also got except a small voice. I think its this men thing that "love is big, we can share it".. we tend to feel feelings for more than one person. but also, it maybe that distance is what is taking its effect on me. But no, cos we don't even have sex to say proximity with guarantee of sex is the reason. you see!
I will be back home soon to see my family, and my other girl friend, but I have to set everything straight this time. I can only love one person to get married to. I thank God I didn't use any of them to my advantage which should have haunt me.

THE QUESTION IS, HOW DO I GO ABOUT THIS WHOLE THING? IT MIGHT SEEM EASY BUT, I AM VERY VERY CONFUSED. THANKS

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