I am very upset please and I need your help. Lately, I've been dating a guy and things that I normally would not do, I did. No, it's not anything bad, it's just that for the past 2 years, I've learned how to keep my feelings to myself so that I do not get hurt. Now that I've been talking to this guy, I felt it was ok to let my feelings known until latlely he's being saying that I haven't met him so I shouldn't assume that I will feel the same way after meeting him. Although we have not met in person, I mean I've seen him and we do video chat and all, and I know he might be right, I'm just really upset because I feel stupid. I mean I opened myself up just one time and I feel like it wasn't even necessary. Please, what do you suggest I do? Please, if you do comment, please try to be as clear as possible and please, sarcasm at it's best. Meaning you can criticize but do not insult me. Thank you and I greatly appreciate it.