Morning 2 u all… I just made a decision which from my reasoning was right but wish to know if I was just been selfish or not… I am a guy, an adult for that matter, living in a different state with my family, about 4 months ago, I visited home (my family) and spent about 2 months with them. During that period, I met a girl, we fell for each other and had some nice time together which we promised that it will not stop no matter the distance. When it was time for me to return back to base, I did but things changed, we had more quarrel and fight than good times over the phone, but at a point, I knew it was just because of the distance which I said that we will get used to it with time… but about 2 weeks ago, another guy sent my girl (the girl I met when I visited my family) a friendship request on ***** , she accepted and I was also her friend on ***** …. When ***** notified me I checked the guys profile and he was totally strange, but I never took it serious because most of the people I have as friend on ***** , I have never met them in person….but as time went by, this guy started commenting on my girls photo, at this point, I got interested and wanted to know what he was upto. I added him, he accepted, and I emailed him, asking him about my girl, just to know if there was anything going….pals, to my surprise, he told me things I never expected, he forwarded all the chat he ever had with my girl, to cut the whole story short, my girl told him that she is single, that she broke up with her boyfriend last year because he was also dating her best friend, they have also communicated on the phone and even making plans to meet in person….when I confronted my girl, at first, she denied but then I mentioned the guys name, then she admitted and told me it was devil, that she never knew what came over her… I just finished talking with her on the phone a while ago, I told her to continue with the new guy that am out… she said sorry anyway, but then, I find it hard to trust and believe her again. We are not in same state and if she can do this on ***** , who knows what she is done or doing outside ***** … someone once told me that if your boyfriend or girl friend is on any social media that you are 99% single, I think he was right…. 10q all…