I wonder why is it that when a person ages to 30 yrs old and...
I wonder why is it that when a person ages to 30 yrs old and is still single, all of the sudden the pressure from family and friends to be married and have children is so daunting. Why must they keep up with the Joneses? What if they are not yet financially stable in their own life to assume a family? Why should anyone put the cart before the horse? Logic states to have stable income, a home of your own and then family can come. So many marriages break up over finances, cheating, babies etc...Why not make certain of who we are before we accept the responsibility of another?

It is possible along the way to have a loving relationship of individuals without the commitment of marriage and children. I for one believe in standing on my own two feet. Not needing from anyone but chosing to love someone. We place such value on monetary bullshit and forget what is really important to survive in this world and have a lasting realtionship. Love does not conquer all. But it sure helps get thru the tough times. LV, Gucci, Lauren, YMCMB, Brazillian hair, BB, and all that other nonsense will not survive the test that stability can offer a loving relationship.

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