Pls i am confused. I hav a guy i'm dating 4 over 8 months. I'm 28 and i am 4 years older than him & we didnt have prblm wit d age difference. I work in a bank and he is a fresh graduate who manages in a secondary sch. Dis guy doesnt drink,smoke and doesnt flirt. He neva collect a kobo frm me. Weneva he is broke, he prefers to borrow frm frnds. He claims dat he doesnt want to look like a gold digger to me. But d problem is dat, he is nt caring, he doesnt cuddle me like a baby, no gifts, no outing and he is also strict. He stands on evry word he says. And he is not ready to settle down till abt 2yrs time. At workplace. I met a customer who is a bussiness man, i fall in love with him. Dis guy is really caring, he calls evry 30 minutes, buy gifts, takes me out, and promisd me marriage in 8 months time. But he smokes, drink and also flirt with gals on social sites which i dnt like. He demands 4 money always 4 one thing or the other, and if i dnt give him, he gets angry and quarallel with me for days and he beats me atimes. I am dating the two of them at d same time and they dnt knw each oda. They have opposite characters.. I love d first guy for his humility and i love d 2nd guy for his caring attitude. My mind isnt settled so i want to choose one of them, but dnt knw the one to choose and serious with. Pls help me out