Please am writing this so i can know how to go about what i know am to do. Am currently studying overseas and sometimes in June 2012, i visited Nigeria and reconnected back with my ex-girlfriend whom i happen to love honestly, things were good and i had to return back to oversea to continue my studying with the hope of going back to finally settle with her when am done studying soon but please note i never promised her, i left her on the platform of should destiny bring us back together, then i definitely will. Along the line, i happen to meet this Indian lady when i returned from Nigeria and we got close, am not sure what i was doing then but we started a relationship and before i could figure things out she got deep and obviously she loves me but i figured out i don't actually love her as much as i claim to. In fact i think am with her because i pity her, she's maltreated by her family and friends and for a fact i seem to be the only one that treats her right, now i know that's pretty messed up as i don't want to act like a super hero to her, i mean if candidly we should be together then i ought to feel right about it and not just because am scared if am to leave her someday she might end up injuring herself or even attempting a suicide. Now i got bigger dreams and i see a full and big future ahead of me but am sorry i just don't picture this indian lady in all of my fantasies. I have drastically reduced communications with her, i even sat her down to tell her that am not feeling right about the relationship but she is so optimistic and just wouldn't let go, the truth is we both want something different, Please i need an advice on how to end the relationship because i know for a fact that not every relationship ends up in marriage??