i use to come and visit my eider sister who stay at gwagwalada every holiday, i came there for hoilday as usual as i use to .....one day my sister husband wirte to me and told me am beautiful, i ignored him and pretend i did not see the message he sent.....one night i wake up and meet my sister husband right on top of me....that was d night i lost my vaginity. and i was scared to tell my aunty and family what happen i only bear the pain all by myself. till one day my boy friend ask me if i am still a vergin i said yes, bt he notice i was lying yto him so he ask me and i told him the truth and ask him not to tell any one. jst few weeks ago in my church they ask all the female youth to come out and we were ask to see the pastor if we know we are still vergins. i did not go cos i dont want to lie to God and my pastor. so my sister went home shouting at me asking me why did i do it, why must i lost it now, i was confuse becourse i dont know if i should tell her the truth or not, i just told her it some body she dopnt know him, then one faith night my sister ask me that what do her husband normally come to do in my room every night i was scared cos he do come there to look at his children and also disturb me but i told her i dont know. so she said i should not lie to her that she will not be mad at me if i tell her the truth, but i still say i dont know what he come to9 our room to do. i lie to her becos i dont want my reason of keeping it to myself all this years to be waisted and i dont want to be the reason if eventuallyt their marriage break up i dont want to be the cause of the problem, but now that she is asking me i dont know if i should tell ha or not. please palz i need your advice on what to do.