pals i was dating at 17years and we were all in the same school.when we completed school i was 18 then.we loved me each other so much but had no intimacy, i don't know what happened i wrote him a letter for us to breakup so i could concentrate on my studies.I was later in the university and he was also but we kept our distance and we never talked about coming back again.I got married and he was there to congratulate me and my husband and told my husband he is not gonna take it lightly if he hears anything like i am not really happy in the marriage.it was just a big laugh.In the following year he also got married but the rate at which he keeps contacting me is disturbing.He added me on ***** , and Skype.It got to a point i ***** d it and he called again pleading that i should add him again.He called me one time and said he saw my husband with someone else at a restaurant and the way they were chatting, it was not gud to look at.i called my husband and he told me he was at the restaurant with her sister and i even spoke with her.pals i just don't know how to tell him to stay off my back without being rude...