Pls don't insult, ok. I had a relationship with a younger guy some years back (though, i did not know he was younger). I seriously love dis guy, he loved me 2. As time went one, i got pregnant for him, he was surprised and felt he doesn't have the resources to father a child. He told me to abort it, that he doesn't want his child to come to this world to suffer and he wants the best for his kids. I don't like abortion, but i attempted it. It was futile, so with warnings from friends and relations, i kept the pregnancy. He was angry about the whole issue, he even wept. He said I have killed him and the baby might end up hating him for bring poverty to its life. Nine months past, instead of a baby, i gave birth to the cutest kids in the hospital (twins). He came to see the kids, but since then he has been avoiding them, he has been trying to send money for their up-keep but i don't need the money cos i come from a well-to-do family. He said he can't stay with the kids and not being able to provide for them. I love my guy so much, i just want him to stay with me and the kids. The kids doesn't know their father, but i have shown them his pix. They loved him instantly. My kids are so cute that people wonder how their father look like. I don't know how to convince him to come home, i just need ur advice, pls.