Hello fellow Nieria, complement of the seaon for everyone. This is my first time to seek for advise from my fellow Nigerians. pls i need a good advise on this issues concerning my life in abroad, i live in abroad for good 4 years, i met a girl of my dream there and we are happily married, though we have n't do white wedding but have performed all the traditional right,God bless us with 2 kids. The problem now is that we have problem of paper, because the country we are into is very strict/difficult concerning resident permit, they reject our temporary working visa now,and they want us to leave the country as soon as possible despite that our 2 kids was born there. The problm now is that we dont want to stay in nigeria because d codition of nigeria cannot be suitable with us especially our kids that never experience darkness before in their life. Now we wnt to come back and relocate to another country but my wife want me to come back 1st and travel, and organise things before they will now come over, but i,m afraid because if i leave them and the time giving to us expired , they might be arrested. And if i take them along with me, it will involve alot of expenses because i dont know how long it will take me to get the visa to another country. Pls my pls i need ur advise.