im married to a wonderful Nigerian man, we hv 2
boys 2 girls, i so much love him till this day, i
could do anything for him, the love i have for him
makes me don't care of all the negativity
surround us, my family disowned me, my friends
don't want to be friend anymore because im a
white and he is black, but all that doesn't disturb
me, my household is happy without them, his
family don't want us, we visited Nigeria last year
because he wanted to build a house in his village,
when the family hear that, all the sudden we are
the love of the family, they even for the first time
call me their wife, my husband said its normal for
them to call that to show that they welcome me.
We flew back to New York, then one month later
the work started for our house and also we move
the family to a rented house because my
husband break the family house to build a new
and modern one for them just to say thank you to
the parent. The houses finally finished and we
flew back to Nigeria to do the interior and buy
and fix up the sofas, dining, beds etc to the both
houses.. We do the party for opening house and
all, all are good, Then went back to NY because
the leave is over. Then few days after we arrived
home my husband call Nigeria and nobody pick
up any of our calls again, until we have to call his
neighbour house to talk to my mother inlaw, you
won't guess what she told my husband.. That for
him to leave them, and go with the oyibo just
then my husband whom has high blood pressure
problem, collapsed and i rushed him to the
hospital, the next day my beloved husband
passed away. Why does his family does that, why
do they treat us this way.