really hope you guys can help me put things in perspective. I met a guy early last year and we started dating. Before i accepted, my father told me to refuse his proposal, being that i wasnt given any reason, i accepted anyway. We just assumed that when we were ready to get married we would get people to beg my father. recently my father found out i went ahead with the relationship. He has called me and told me that i should break it off because He didnt give me any go ahead and because he doesnt feel the guy approached me correctly(he collected my number in church when we were asked to exchange numbers for prayers), those are his reasons. He even went as far as telling me he wouldnt be my father again if i married the guy and that I should prepare fo a court wedding because he is not planning on giving me out to that guy. Im in a dilemma because i truly believe this guy is the right one for me but my parents are hearing none of it. ive neva gone contrary to what my parents have ordered me to do before but i feel they are playing with my future happiness. I love my family and I love my guy(he says he"ll stand by me no matter what decision i take). What do i do?