hi pals, i need your advice on this issue that is bordering me, there was a guy i dated for almost 5years, he is an igbo guy we loved each other,the dad left a message before he died that the boy should not marry outsider. wen i had it was like the world wanted to come to an end for me the boy was crying i was crying too i dont know wat to do i was so confuse. i now told the boy let us quite this relationship he said no, becos i dont want family problem. my point now is that there is this two guys on my neck now i dont know which one to choose, one is working the other one is not, the both are very nice. the one that is working is a graduate. becos i dont want to make a mistake again, all those my father said my mother said especailly the igbos. am so confuse, i need your advice pls insult are welcome. thanks