Hi everyone! <br /> I will be 20 sometime this year and I ac...

Hi everyone!
I will be 20 sometime this year and I actually don't think this the main problem. My problem is >this----
This may sound stupid but I don't mind what you think. I have this thing about me..every guy wants to be friends with me even my girlfriends' boyfriends. I am actually being serious here. I sing in the choir and I'm born and bred in a christain home. In church, when there are new ministers coming to preach...they keep staring at me and the next thing they do after service is to ask me of my number. I always give them and they start sending unhealthy messages. This has been a problem for me because anywhere I go to....I cause problems for the girls. Girls equally hate me. I have no real female friends now. I don't know if this is actually a Blessing or a curse. My parents noticed this and stopped me from any form of make-up and outings. I don't even wear anything tight. I don't do anything and guys won't stop on hurting me. This is so serious. I have been in serious case with my parents. A girl in church even accused me of having an affair with the father. This also brought another serious problem.
The annoying part is that I don't even have a boyfriend..I don't go to parties..I equally don't like guys(I am not lesbian), I don't wear jewelries. I don't know if I have a problem.
Now....I am writing this because not too long ago, a girl that has really been close to me went around telling people that I am possesed and calling me all sort of names....what if I am?? Why are guys all over me even when I try to be harsh??? Why is it that all they want is marriage...no one wants a relationship with me?(one of the reasons I still do not have a boyfriend)
I don't make-up, I dress responsibly, I always try to do the right thing and everyone keeps judging me(I mean girls)....I have no female friends right now except one. She is even tired of me because her brother is after me. I am always scared of guys because I always think I end up hurting someone, while in secondary school...a girl actually beat me up because she thought the boyfriend was always calling me but the boyfriend was only bragging to people about all sort of things concerning me. I am depressed. I don't even know what LOVE is like. Girlsssss, are so heartless. One even tried poisoning me. What exactly is wrong with me!!!!!!!!!

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