Hi my naijapals, I need ur sincere advise. I know u probably tired of hearing ppl relationship issue but pls share ur tots with me on this. I am a single mother working in lagos. I had a bad experience with my baby fada, so bad that when I tell ppl. They look at me and say, how did u survive such heart break and wickedness. Now I've met someone, he's ok. Buys me things and stuff but of recently I checked his fone and saw him asking some girls to come over or travel with him on top that he talked to me anyhow when I confronted so I pick my stuffs and left. We didn't talk for two weeks plus and he came back sober. He always tells me how his junior brother always warn him that I'm a good girl and he should stop misbehaving which makes me happy. At times d way he behaves to me, I'm convinced he reallly loves me but that stuff I saw makes me wonder. Then the father of my child wants me back badly but he's just d same person. My first love, father of my child etc but any small issue he calls me a hoe cause after he left me, I met someone and he was showering me with love and didn't care if I had a child. If I start talking abt his character, hmmmmmm my ppl u will wonder but I sometimes want to consider him for my child sake. I don't want to end up with someone else and make my dota miserable though the current guy I'm seeing doesn't mind but d big question is, can he be a good father to my dota ?