Hi friends Pℓε̲̣̣̣̥A̲̅ ̶̥S̶̲̥̅ε̲̣̣ ̣̥ i need advice asap.i met this yoruba chick while i was in school,we've dated for almost 4 years,recently she said she went to church and T̶̲̥̅̊h̶̲̥̅� �e̶̲̥̅̊ pastor told her that iam a gold digger,that's not even T̶̲̥̅̊h̶̲̥̅� �e̶̲̥̅̊ problem her parents are pressuring her to get married and am seriously not ready for this marriage because i lost my job and marriage is not something to rush into..now my question is,while i was working and changing her phones always,giving her a befiting life,always making sure she is happy, she never went to church or pastor never told her i was a gold digger 2nd,i don't take anything from her per say 3rd did we ever love ourselves? Cos if she did love me she would stick to me and wait for me to rise to my self again.now with this story if  end T̶̲̥̅̊h̶̲̥̅� �e̶̲̥̅̊ relationship now that things are begining to come back as it was will i be making any mistakes?