Pls i need candid and constructive advise. I currently reside here in lagos. For a long time(over 9 months) i was single and searching. I had lot of guys coming my way, but they all seem to be less interested in a relationship but keen on getting me to bed. Finally i me Bala. He is such a nice, quiet, caring and loving guy. It was more like friendship than a relationship cos we were so much into each other. We seem to have eveything in common. I fell in love completely. My trouble started from the day we began having sex. (oops! i'm 25 by the way). He asked me if i could really satisfy him and i told him i'll do my best. He then took off his cloths, knelt down in a position of a crawling baby and ask me to ***** his anus intensly. His words: "baby ***** it like you are using a straw. I want to feel my juice coming out of me". I almost swallowed my teeth in disbelieve. I told him "never! that's totally disgusting and i can't even dare it". We did had sex that day (which he seem less interested about) and ever since, he has been on my neck to ***** his anus intensely. Without a doubt, i love him and i'm scared of losing him cos no one has ever loved me like he does. But anus ***** ing is out of the question. I will never do such cos i'm not an animal. Please what do i do? is there anyway i could make him obliterate such fantasy? Thanks.