gud day pals, pls i need mature advice not insults
am a gal of 24 i ve been into a distace relationship wit a guy for 4 yrs. dis guy engaged me on the 5th jan 2011 i ve been to there place several occasion he introduce to his family members as a finacee. but something happened that was so suprise to me. on the 13th day of oct 2012 he called me on phone i pick his call but the place was very noisy i decided to him back later even b4 that day, he has been acting so strange to me he hardly pick my calls even wen he picks and i ask why he is not picking my calls, he will tell me that is not mandatory that we will be talking to each other day by bay. so wen i got home dat day he called and started telling me that am in a guy's house dat was why am not picking his calls i told him my reasons dat i was in a saloon but because of how noisy the place was,that why i did'nt pick the call. i apologize over it, but the reply i got was is over between the both of us cos i can't luv or trust u again in lyf. i tot it was a joke i tried everything possible to prove to him that am innocent, but to no avail @ a time he stop picking calls. the truth is that this guy is my 1st bf in life but i had to move on with my life. somebody else is coming my way now should i gv him a chance or wait 4 my ex-guy? am afraid of going into distance relationship again cos i dont want what happen in the previous 1 to happen again. pls pals advice me on wht to do now before is too late
tanx