I'm so confused. I met a gal in ma 300level days. She skuls in ilorin and i sch in akungba. She has d physical qualities i want in a lady. She is slim, straight, fair, a christain like me and she is tall cos i am short.. But dis girl doesnt treat me rite. She makes sure i send monthly allowances of 5k to her. She demands 4 airtime and still she wil not call. She shouts on me and ride me cos she is a year older dan me. Wen i graduated and no longer get pocket money to send to her again. She stops caring, calling and visiting. June 2011 wen i went 4 nysc, she started caring again cos of my alawi. Honestly, she has d magical way of obtaining me dat i cant resist. Dat continued till i finishd my nysc, she stopd caring. Wen she visited me in late 2011, she logd in to fbk on ma fone and forgets to log out. I checkd her fbk inbox and find out dat she has visited more dan 10guys on fbk within 6 months. She visits any1 who sends t.fare to her irrespective of d locations. Meanwhile. During ma nysc days. I have a female copper frnd. She is 4 years older dan me, a muslim, shorter dan me. But she is caring, prayerful , respectful and religious. She so much liked me and cherish me like a egg despite d fact dat we aren't dating. After my nysc wen i was jobless. My galfrnd abandoned me again as usual. It was dis ma muslim frnd dat stand by me financially and emotionaly. Now she got a job with stanbic bank and also helpd me with a job in Gtb tru her connection. Rite now, my galfrnd is showing face again and i love dis oda gal and i knw she loves me too. But she is shorter. I dnt want ma children to be short. I dnt knw which to go for?, physical qualities or attitude and character quality. Pls advice