pals pls advice me on wat to do, i happen to fall in love with a sister in my choir, i approached her but her reply was that i shud wait that she,ll need to think about it. but not knowing to me my very best friend in the choir that i consulted before talking to her also went chasing after this girl, no she,s thinking its a set-up, i stylishly brought up the matter wen i and my friend was discussing last sunday and suddenly he started sayin that i shud forget about her that another guy in the choir is already dating her which i suspected its a lie, i wanted to just forget abt everytin but my love for this girl is too much that these days i cant even concetrate on anything , when we stand in the choir to sing and i sight her bum i will just get confuse and start singing auto instead of bass. pls i need good advice on wat to do before i,ll lose control one day and grab her bum while the choir is singing, this will affect my christain personality and i know the pastor will just chase me and my bible out of the church at once.