i am a girl of 23yrs old and l live in europe i have been dating this guy for over a year i have love him with every thing i have but i have a feeling he is using me when i first meant him he told me he have a baby but he is longer with d baby mama but she do visit him just for him to see the baby once in a week .when ever he have financial problem he will run to me like a child that need food and i always help him out but each time we have problem he will never call untill 2 or 3 weeks later or may be he have a problem he need me to help him with..he came visiting me last weekend and use my laptop and forget to sign out of his mail when i went on line to check my mail i saw his mail open and i decide to go thruogh it low and behold i saw america visa lottery apllication on his inbox i printed it out and send it to his phone through whatsaap imediatly he recieved it he called me and started yelling at me asking where i got it from i told him and he end up telling it was his baby mama that that fill the application and ever since he didnt call claiming i was wrong for checking his mail box. please i am so confused i need some advice