We were friends for a Year,The second day i visited their house was the day i discovered she was epileptic,she had a seizure that day.i was angry because she kept it away from me for years. But then,i asked her mum if it can be cured,she said Yes,that a Herbalist told her that "Only a Guy that loves her so much will cure her,that he will mix some medcine for him,he will drink it,after 3 days in his house,then he will leave but the problem is that He will not love or stay were she will see him again,if he does otherwise,the epilepsy will come back in full force and kill her.since then i distanced myself a bit from her.she is a nice girl only that epileptic was her bad. After some months,she had another seizure that nearly took her life.. Her mum was like crying her eyes out cos she's her only daughter. I volunteer myself,after 3days,she's fine. One week later..,i travelled 2 Abuja to stay with my Elder sis so as to distance myself from her.
Yesterday,we meet each other after 4yrs in Abuja when she visits her fiancee. She rains insults how i left her without any notice. She cried and called me all sorts of name. I feel bad but not much bcos she's not aware what happened at the herbalist.its only between me and her mum. But to be sincere my friends,i love her and i owe her explanations. I only told her to meet her mum,that she will tell her the reason why i left.
I dnt know if what i did was bad by telling her to meet her mum?? She engaged already and will get married soon. My fear now is that she might break up with the man if she finds out what happened. I dont want her to die but she needs to know that i did what i did bcos of love and she has my blessings in her up coming wedding. Was i wrong?? plzz i need back up advice.