But seriously, is it mandatory for a guy to give his woman (girlfriend/fiancée or Wife) access to his phone to prove his honesty? I don't get it, this lady (my fiancée) is always accusing me of cheating, not that she's caught me with anyone, but simply because she doesn't have my phone's security code. I don't cheat, I'm honest to her, but that phone is just a no-no. I'm in Media and corporate advertising industry, I relate with all sorts of people from all walks of life, most of the things I do are best left between me, the company and the client, no exceptions no excuses, shouldn't be exposed more than that. I tried every means known to get her to understand, but each time I get a call or my phone beeps with incoming message, she's always frowning and grumbling, and she's always at my place like all the time so its difficult to keep things from happening in her presence. I once had a lady who picked an incoming call on my phone and lambasted the caller, who happened to be my Boss! I know what I went through to keep my job.. so I'm just asking, must I let you into my phone before you can trust me? I'm not a cheat.